On a church near where I live, someone had put on the marquee:
Heaven doesn't have walls, it has a table.
I'm guessing they were trying to make a pithy political point. Too bad they didn't have a Bible in their church.
Whatever your thoughts about walls between nations, Revelation 21 is very clear that heaven will have walls. And I honestly don't really know why because we're also told that those walls will have twelve gates that don't close. I'm sure this is imagery that will be more clear once we're there, but for now, the Scripture is very adamant that heaven has walls.
And there's no clear indication that heaven will have a table. There is eating that goes on in heaven (praise God!) in Revelation 22, but no mention of a table. Jesus also told the disciples at the last supper that he wouldn't eat of that meal again until he ate it with them in heaven, but still there's no mention of whether a table will be involved. Maybe we can infer one ... or maybe we'll just sit out on fields of heaven the way they did when Jesus fed the five thousand.
It's just a church marquee, and maybe it's handled by someone in the church who doesn't have a rudimentary grasp of Scripture while the rest of the people are Bible-strong, but what does it say about a congregation when they use a publicly visible venue to declare something that's exactly opposite of Scripture?
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Monday, April 3, 2017
Tuesday, August 30, 2016
Withering Church
Was in a small, west Texas town last week to see some patients and came across the 1st Christian Church of That Town
. I had wondered where it was, as I had had some dealings with it before,
sort of. Back in 2010, I attended a meeting of what was called (I think) the
Panhandle Evangelism Association, which amounted to two people from our church,
the minister from That Town, and an old college alum of mine (who was ministering at a church in
Amarillo at the time). So I had wondered if the church of That Town still
existed.
Having taken a wrong turn in my effort to get to
the nursing home, I spotted a building with a sign out front that proclaimed (in
muted tones), "1st Christian Church." Nice-looking little building, and there
were two trucks pulled up out front so I thought maybe someone was there mowing
the yard. I stopped and went in and was met by two elderly gentlemen whose names
I don't remember. They greeted me and I told them who I was and I found out that
they were 2/3 of the church. On Sunday mornings, one of them brings his wife.
And they live more than an hour away. He told me the Church of Christ had tried
to buy the building from then and my thought was, "Sell! Sell!" but he was born
and raised in that church, he father was a founder, and he can't bear to let it
go.
[I say the sign proclaimed the church in muted
tones because while it had the name spelled out, it did not have the service
times anywhere on it. So, if Joe Smith decides one Sunday morning he would like
to attend 1st Christian ... how's he going to know when to show up? I asked them
that in a polite way and they took it kindly, though acted like they had never
thought of anything like that. The building itself is in OK shape, though it smells musty and the interior is definitely from the 1970s. So, from a strictly superficial standpoint, the church has 3 strikes against it before a service could even start.]
That Town is a dying, rural town. Doesn't even have
a grocery store anymore. Just a Love's, another convenience store (which is
across the street from the Love's), a Subway and a Sonic. A dozen Mexican food
restaurants (which is a really low number for a town of that size in west Texas). The town square is just a square of empty shops around a
courthouse. There's an old, closed movie theater on the square that I would love to see the inside of. So, even if you had the wherewithal to--say--sponsor a
church-planting team to come in and take over the building, canvas the area,
etc., what are the chances of it taking off in a town like that? I'm sure it
COULD be done, but I wouldn't bet on it BEING done.
This Town (the town where I used to minister) is not a dying town like That Town, but I
could sure see the church where I used to serve following the path of that church
in That Town. Maybe it won't, but there is very little in the church's current
makeup to make one say, "That'll never happen here!"
On the other hand, I think churches/congregations
may be like plants. Some of them are designed to be planted, grow for a while,
then die off. It should only be sad if we prolong it long past the sell-by date,
holding onto a building more than onto our Lord. We should probably rejoice in
the time it had and the lives it affected when it was supposed to.
Normally, I think cultural fads flow from the big cities outward, but I wonder if this particular flow--while it may be coming from the cities (I could write more on that later but probably won't)--is most clearly visible in the rural areas: the church model of 'if you build it they will come', sometimes called more formally 'the attractional model', is nearing it's end. Our culture bombards everyone--but especially our young--with attractive enticements. Many churches have tried to jump on that bandwagon and are meeting with a season of success, but I think that season is closing. For some, it already has.
There are think tanks in the world of science and politics and art (and maybe every discipline) who try to predict "the next big thing". New methods of propulsion. New mediums for art. Demographic changes that make old methods of polling obsolete.
Surely there are think tanks for the church. I wonder what they are predicting? I firmly believe that God will always preserve a remnant, but it may not be anything like what we expect a "church" to look like.
Thursday, February 19, 2015
An Open and Honest Discussion
Or, “Give me what I want, not
what I asked for.”
It happened
again. Another article about some person
who has left the main-stream church—or, in this case, church entirely—and is
hoping that their speaking out will cause churches to finally talk about the
issues, or have a dialogue, or some such contemporary catch phrase.
Yes, I am
treating their desire lightly. Because I
have serious doubts that it’s what they want.
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Years ago, I
saw a documentary about a prominent and popular singer who had a reputation
for, shall we say, something less than sobriety. He was a professing believer, or so he
professed, and used to even teach Sunday school but had quit the church because
they had some kind of wacky objection to him being high while teaching the
youngsters. He was convinced that the
attitude was the church’s problem to overcome rather than his own.
And he’s
such a good singer that, well, we’ve got to listen to him, right?
The more
recent article was about another singer who had left the church because she had
decided to engage in a sexual lifestyle that ran counter to what the church she
had been attending taught. She claimed
to only want said church to have an honest and open dialogue about her proclivities.
Call me
skeptical. I don’t know the woman—which is
one of the reasons I am not mentioning her name here—but I have a sneaking
suspicion that she only wants a dialogue if she’s pretty certain the outcome
will favor her and her lifestyle. Maybe
I’m wrong. Maybe she’ll sit down one day
with the leaders of that church and they’ll all have a calm, reasonable, loving
discussion about the issue.
How will she
react if the church finally says, “Ms. Entertainer, we have enjoyed getting to
visit like this with and we love you, but after careful study of Scripture we still
believe the lifestyle choices you have brought before us are sinful and,
therefore, we cannot condone them. We
humbly entreat you to repent of them and we would love to be here to help you
fight these temptations—just as we would like to have you help us fight
ours. However, if you cannot admit that
these actions are sinful and refuse to make any effort to submit them to the
Holy Spirit, we’re going to have to ask you to leave.”
I realize
that last paragraph started with a question, so there should be a question mark
somewhere, but I’m not sure where to put it.
How about here?: ?
Anyway, how
do you think she would react? Is it
unreasonable for a church to behave as I have just described?
What I have
found is that a lot a lot of people want a middle ground. They don’t mind if the church teaches that
their particular vice is a sin, just so long as no one calls them personally on it or does anything
about it.
So they go
in search of a church that will uplift them (somehow) with appreciated music
and encouraging speakers but won’t ever trouble them with any kind of “thou
shalt not”s.
Now
personally, I am not a fan of the pulpit-pounding-brimstone version of church
oratory. I like to be encouraged. I
like uplifting tunes. I am also a great
believer in and fan of grace—that free gift from God that none of us can earn.
What if,
however, having accepted God’s grace and submitted to the Lordship of his son,
there is an expected life to be led? Not
in a “how close can I get to the edge without falling out of God’s favor?” but
as in a “how close can I live
to God?!?”
What if these churches are not trying to be nefarious but are actually doing the best they know how to lift their people closer to God? I don't deny that there have been abuses in the name of God, but in the modern era I am convinced that such infractions are the vast minority. Unless you are of the opinion that anyone who tells you "no" is somehow infringing on your rights or just harshing on your mellow, the most harmful thing done to anyone today by the church is probably to leave them alone.
My reply to some wonderful comments (below): Thanks C.D. and D.S. for great comments. We live in an age when more and more people are turning hostile to the gospel, while claiming it was the gospel that turned hostile to them! For a case in point, read this article I found just this morning: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kathleen-ferraro/dont-judge-a-catholic-sch_b_6714886.html?ncid=txtlnkusaolp00000592 The author is honest enough to admit, though, that if the church changed she probably still wouldn't attend. Could that be because she knows that a church that waters down it's message to meet a fickle public isn't worth the bother.
Tuesday, December 9, 2014
If Your Church Went Away
I have
gotten in the past an advertisement that begins with a question like, “What if
your church went away, would anyone notice?”
The implication is that my church is so inconsequential that no one
would. Therefore, I need to buy their
product (or program or whatever) which will revitalize my church so that my
city would notice it (if it went away).
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Leaving
aside the value of the offered program, I have been thinking about that
question of, “If my church went away, would anyone notice?”
I think the
answer is: it depends on how it goes away.
First off,
are we just referring to the building?
If my church(building) [hereafter referred to as the CB] were to go away
because someone torched it, that would probably be noticed because there are
people living nearby. It might even make
the news, especially if it could be proven to have been a “hate crime”. But the news would soon fade away, except
that the local news might come back later and run a paragraph and a picture
about the grand re-opening. Otherwise,
the story would soon fade from the collective consciousness.
The same
might be said by other, more mundane methods of losing a CB: faulty wiring
leading to fire, drunk plows his car into the building, neighborhood rezoned
and plot of land turned into a Quick Quack (car wash or emergency care center).
Now, if the
CB were taken out by something that was clearly an act of God—like a fireball
from heaven plowing into the building leaving said CB as nothing but a
smoldering hole in the ground while the rest of the neighborhood stays intact—that
might be noticed a little more. Might
even make the national news—especially if there were people (hopefully not me,
personally) inside at the time. But,
soon, it would disappear from the news and the minds of everyone except for
those people who run those “end times” conspiracy websites*.
These
scenarios aren’t really what the ads were talking about, though. The church they are talking about going away
is actually the group of people who
meet in the CB.
Where did
they go? And did anyone see them leave?
The
implication is that the answer to the second question is “no” which makes the
answer to the first question, “Who cares?”
According to
the fliers—either implied or stated outright—we churches have lost influence in
our neighborhoods/communities and, if we go away, we won’t leave a hole there,
physically or spiritually and I don’t
argue with that assessment.
With one
caveat: are we talking about one church going away at a time? This does happen from time to time and this
is what the flier-writer knows and is trying hedge against (make a profit off
of). Second Church of the Lower East
Side used to be quite a going concern, with a choir and a youth group and all
but, over the years, it shrunk numerically.
Maybe the neighborhood demographics changed, maybe the whole town
changed, or whatever, but it grew smaller and smaller until—like those
grotesque and cheaply produced puppet aliens at the end of the Star Trek
episode “Catspaw”—it just dried up and blew away. No one—or almost no one—noticed because the
influence was long since gone. Some
people may remember that church fondly and kind of wish it were still around,
but a] it’s not a big deal to them and 2] there are lots of other
churches around now.
Which may be
a big part of the story of Lower East Side.
When first founded, it was not only the only church in that part of
town, it was the only thing going at all in that part of town. In the years since, several other churches
have moved in and—in addition—the focus of the people of the neighborhood has been
pulled away by their kids’ athletics, cable & satellite TV, the Rubik’s
Cube and a general desire to sleep in on Sunday mornings.
The flier
wants to provide a remedy (often at some expense) to this malady and show me
how to “double my Sunday school in six weeks” or “create a rockin’ worship
experience” or whatever. Some of them
even have ground-breaking—nay, even revolutionary!—ideas, like returning to the
concept of the sufficiency of Scripture.
Without
getting into the value or validity of their offers (in this blog, anyway), I’m
still wrestling with that question of, “If the church goes away, would anyone
notice?” [The astute reader will notice
this isn’t exactly the question as written earlier in the blog.]
Again, how
is it going away? A collection of
fireballs that wipe out each individual church member (we’re not talking CBs
here!)? The rapture (as some envision
it)? I’m going to answer this question
by saying that either yes, they would notice because this is a large
portion of the world’s population suddenly turning up missing or no, because
the non-millenialists were right and this was the end of the world, in which
case there’s no one or no thing left to do the noticing.
If I’m “doing
church” to be noticed, or if I judge the efficacy of my church (or CB) by the metric
of being noticed, I am probably doing it for the wrong reason. Like the guy Jesus talks about whose prayers
are lifted up so he may be noticed by men and his reward is on earth (and, by
implication, not in heaven), having my church noticed on earth is at
best a side-benefit but likely a hindrance to what should be my goal (pleasing
God).
Should I
worry about the church going away?
No. God’s pretty clear on that:
there will always be at least
a remnant on this planet until he sends his son to come and get us.
Should I
worry about my church going
away? Again, that may be the wrong focus
because 1] we’re specifically told not to worry and b] my focus should be on
God and serving him. If I am doing that,
it will probably strengthen my local body.
* Which are
kind of fun to visit and read, though they often have a grasp of scripture
somewhere south of Joel Osteen (but still ahead of Rob Bell).
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Wednesday, October 22, 2014
Is Church Relevant?
The little churches are
declining. The big churches are, often,
getting bigger. Now, in the little
churches, we often complain that we’re getting smaller because the big churches
are getting bigger.
But I’ve looked at the
numbers—at least in our town and other towns I’ve been in—and the statement
doesn’t hold true. Yes, the little
churches are getting smaller, and the bigger churches are getting bigger, but
there’s not a direct correlation. If I
were to estimate (and why not? It’s my blog, right?), I would say that for
every 100 people who have left the little churches, less than 25 are being
added to the big churches.
I look at the people that
we, as a small church, have lost over the 7 years I have been here and I can
only think of one couple that went to a bigger church. Some died, some are chronic church-hoppers
and we knew from the beginning we didn’t have them for long … and some have
just stopped going to church.
This is a small town. I still see these people around town and I
talk to them. I’m friendly, they’re
friendly, and they usually tell me something like, “Yeah, I need to get back
into church, but … “ For the sake of
this blog, there’s no need to go into the specifics of the second half of that
sentence.
See, they don’t hate the
church; they would never in a million years tell me they hate God; they just
don’t have room for either in their lives right now.
So, what has the church
usually done to try and address this problem?
Newer, hipper music. Video
screens. Youth programs. Gymnasiums.
Let me stress: there is nothing wrong with any of these
things. I see no evidence
that any of these things is anti-God in any way. And sometimes, they even help (though that’s
not a guarantee, either).
Travel back in time with me
for a moment. A time when Sunday morning
service involved hymns, sung from hymnals, and the sermons were generally
expository (and long). What was it people
used to call the Wednesday night service back then? “Prayer meetin’.” And you know what? The church was a vital part of the community
and the churches were growing and every denomination was planting and growing
new congregations and—
Wait, this isn’t a call to
go back to hymns, unpadded pews, women’s hats and men’s ties. While I’m a big fan of expository preaching
(or “ex-poz”, as we pronounce it in the biz), I don’t know that it is the
answer over topical sermons.
But I’m thinking that one
thing we need to stop trying to do is “be relevant”. Because the more we try to be “relevant”, the
less impact we seem to be having on our culture. The more user-friendly we’ve tried to make
the church, the less users we’ve had in the church. We lost the culture a long time ago and I don’t
think we can recapture it.
At least, not on culture’s
terms. I’m glad there’s Christian music
and Christian movies and I’ve even tried to do my part to add to the library of
Christian novels and all these things may have a place, but I don’t think they
are the answer (because, for the most part, they are encouraging the faithful
but having little effect on the unsaved).
For one thing, let’s travel
back in that time machine again. Back
when the churches played a much larger part in the life of the average
American, was life perfect? Nope. Not only did they not have satellite TV, they
also had crime and poverty and all the vices we do today. Divorce may not have been as prevalent but
there were still plenty of loveless, Godless (but I repeat myself) marriages.
C.S. Lewis said that he
noticed that chapel attendance at college decreased when it stopped being
mandatory. While there has never been a
country-wide command to be in church here in America , there used to be some societal assumptions and
pressures to get in a church when one came to a town. At some point, though, that ethos ceased to
be passed down to the next generation.
Church went from “something you better be a part of” to “something
that’s a good idea to be a part of” to, now, “something I can’t understand why
anyone would be a part of.” Those of us
who go to church are thought of as harsh and judgmental and uncaring and … and
you know what? The facts have no impact
on this argument.
We can blame that on the
media or the past transgressions of the church, but the real reason is that the
god of this age has blinded people to the truth. And then he’s convinced them that he doesn’t
exist and the one, true God is either a fable or a doddering old man, a vestige
of a bygone, unsophisticated age.
What do I think needs
to happen? I think we need to stop
worrying about being relevant. I don’t
think the style of music matters nearly so much as what is sung* or the length
of the sermon is as important as what is said.
(The Apostle Paul preached so long a dude fell asleep and died—and then, after raising the
fellow—Paul went and finished the sermon! But Jesus’s entire Sermon on the Mount can be
read out loud in about 12 minutes, 20 if you’re in the south.)
Ultimately, I think what’s
going to save the church is to take the focus off the church and put it on our
every-day-lives. See, I’m convinced that
all those people who have drifted away from the church didn’t leave because of
doctrinal issues or even the church’s stance on alcohol, drugs, homosexuality,
gambling, or whatever.
I think they left because
they looked at the people who stayed and didn’t see that church really made any
difference. They heard the Lord works in
people but saw no evidence of it other than a few happy bromides, which they
could achieve on their own by bailing out on church, sleeping late on Sunday,
and getting tweets from Joyce Meyers*.
I think—nay, I’m
convinced—that the only way to save the church is to take the emphasis off the
church and have Christians living—every day, out in the world—as Christians.
* For those people who are
always going on about how much better the old hymns are because of the lyrical
intricacies and harmonies and such, I think some
of the worship choruses surpass the hymns for the simple reason that they are
just scripture set to music. While I,
personally, am not big on all the repetition some of the new songs slip into,
over all I would have to say that a direct quote from the Apostle Paul trumps
the poetry of Isaac Watts (but that’s just me).
* No offence to Joyce
Meyers. She sends out good tweets, which
is why she was the first one to come to mind.
There are also great tweets from CS Lewis, Billy Graham, Max Lucado,
Timothy Keller, Matt Chandler and many more.
Tuesday, September 2, 2014
The Church Must Change
Recently, my attention was drawn, via Facebook, to two
different blogs by two separate bloggers (can’t remember if I were sent them by
the same person) dealing with the same problem: why the church is losing
millennials. In both cases, they were
appended with notes that read something like, “Well-written article.”
And they were. They
both contained nothing but correctly spelled words, the grammar was impeccable,
and the syntax was fully paid-up for the fiscal quarter.
They were also remarkably similar.
Not just with each other, but with articles that I was
emailed ten years ago with a headline of “Why Generation X is leaving the
church”, which greatly mirrored articles sent via snail mail from 30 years ago
with titles like, “Why the baby boomers are leaving the church.” Go back far enough, and someone was probably
writing a missive on papyrus about why the Iron Age was leaving the synagogue.
Now, both of you who are still reading to this point, don’t
get me wrong. I’m not saying that the
articles are wrong, I just find it interesting that every generation has to get
to the point where they think they’ve got it right.
Take these two articles I was recently made acquainted with
(please). The gist of both was that
millenials (a term undefined in either article but we’ll let that slide for
now) are leaving the church because they find it irrelevant. That could be, but it’s also true that for
the last few decades almost everyone leaves the church they grew up in between
the ages of 18-25 and only a small percentage of them ever come back (to any church). I do not deny the possibility that this is
the church’s fault, but I also think the generation itself bears some
responsibility. And, let’s not forget,
there is an Enemy who wants to keep people out of church and those years are an
especially vulnerable time for everyone as we try to figure out our place in
the world and where in it we go to get married, find a job, make meaningful
friends, etc.
Getting to more specific charges (which were also the
charges made 10, 30 and 2000 years ago), the millenials don’t want a
superficial church (amen!). They want a
church that deals with real issues, like how to serve the poor (locally and
globally). They also (in both articles)
want to be assured that the church will treat well their friends who are living
in unrepentant sin.
That one bugs me. It
was in both articles, but neither offered a recipe or outline for what the
author/blogger was hoping the church would do (just a vague fear that we would
inevitably do it wrong). As a person who
fights cynicism on an almost daily basis (some days I just give in to it), what
I am thinking when I read such blogs is that they want the church to welcome
their friends in no matter what and ignore or rationalize the sin away. I have a problem with half that statement
(the second half). At the church where I
serve, our motto is, “Welcoming everyone, wherever you are, to be a growing
follower of Jesus.” I stand by that and
we work hard to make it true. We try to
welcome everyone (and I think we do a pretty good job), but we’re not satisfied
to let ourselves or anyone who worships with us stay where we are. Is the sin in question sexual, verbal,
physical, mental? Doesn’t matter. We want to provide a loving environment in
which the Holy Spirit can help us work together not to embrace sin but to let
that Spirit wash it away. I hope this is
what the Millenials want.
As to the poor, I agree that most churches aren’t doing as
much as we can to help the poor. And, if
you read back through Jesus’s words—as well as the rest of the Bible—you’ll
find that taking care of the poor and ministering
to them is a high priority. I appreciate
that these Millenials want churches that will take up that mantel, but I wonder
if they realize that most of these churches that they are leaving in droves are
ministering to the poor already. Maybe
it’s not in a big way, and certainly, it can be done better, but it is being
done. These churches the Millenials are
looking down on and walking out on, they are participating in a soup kitchen,
gathering clothes against winter for the underprivileged and taking worship
services to care homes and orphanages.
I would encourage any Millenial (or anyone else) who would
like to see their church minister to the poor to a] jump in with an existing
ministry, 2] strengthen that ministry, so that they can c] have the standing to
suggest ways the ministry can be expanded and improved upon! It’s a lot easier, though, to either just
drop out or jump to another church that already has the program together and
all you have to do is plug in.
Instant gratification.
That’s what’s really desired
here, by Millenials, Gen-X’ers (which is what I think I used to be—or maybe I
was Generation Y, as in, “Y do we keep coming up with these stupid labels?”)
and everyone else. We want what we want
now. No 40 years in the wilderness for
me!
This is the real reason people of all ages have left and are
leaving the church. It really has very
little to do with style of music, outreach to the poor, or the church’s stance
on whatever the sin du jour is. By it’s nature, any church worth it’s salt is
going to provoke its members/attendees/adherents/whatever to be something they
aren’t. To minister to both the poor and
the rich, to look out for orphans and widows, to love and good deeds, to take
up your cross, to be holy. But in a culture where we are each told our
own personal hearts are the best and final arbiter of what is right or wrong,
to go into a building where some man or woman points to an ancient book and
says, “Jesus is the way and this is his map” … well, that just ain’t hip, dude.
I do think the church needs to change. There are things we do only because we have
always done them—not because they work (pragmatism), because they never
did. There are things we don’t do for
the same reason. And I want to keep
asking questions about these things that are, in reality, just forms, not
substance. I want to find the substance,
hidden though it may seem at times. And
I don’t want to leave the church to “find something better” because—from where
I sit—it seems that most who do so quickly stop looking and settle for nothing. I want to stay in the church and try to make
it better—not by my standards but by God’s.
P.S. My spell-checker
really hates the first sentence of this blog, recognizing neither “blogs”,
“millenials” or “Facebook”.
Monday, May 12, 2014
Church for Liars
Kenny has
always loved church, attending with his grandmother as a child and even going
on his own during his teenage years.
During college, his church attendance was sporadic, but now that he’s
out on his own he’s trying to find a church to really become a part of.
The churches
he’s tried so far, though, just won’t accept him. Really.
It’s all on them. He doesn’t care
about worship style or length of service or any of that. Couldn’t care less whether the demographic of
the congregation skews old, young, rich, poor, black, white or plaid. He’ll dress up if that’s what’s called for or
wear jeans and a T if that’s the style. He
just wants a congregation who will accept him for who he is.
But they won’t. As soon as they find out that Kenny is a liar,
they immediately start to trying to change him.
They quote Old Testament Scriptures at him like “Thou shalt not bear
false witness” even though they claim to be a New Testament church. They quote NT verses to him about
truthfulness and honesty, sometimes quite harshly. Some of them are really mean about it.
Kenny has
read many scholars, after all, who say that the New Testament has been
mistranslated for almost two thousand years and verses like Ephesians 4:25 don’t
actually mean that a person should never
lie but that they shouldn’t be vicious in their lies. And, as is obvious to anyone of a modern,
enlightened, mind, John 7:18 is saying that Jesus
never lies, not that any of us never do.
Of course, we all lie now and then, so it would be hypocritical to get
on to someone who lies more frequently.
Kenny has
also found scholars to tell him that John 8:44 was mistranslated in saying that
Satan is the father of liars and of lies, though he can’t remember what those
phrases actually mean in Greek. And so what if Titus 1:2 says God never lies,
it’s not like God is built in such a way to
lie. He doesn’t have the same urges or
needs as we do.
So it has
really galled Kenny when he’s attended church and been a part of ministry teams
and taught Sunday school—and even played on the softball team side-by-side with
the minister, for gosh sakes!—and then, as soon as he’s honest with them and
tells them he’s a liar, they want to change him. Some of them shout and call him names, which
certainly didn’t make him want to worship with people like that! But the worst ones are
those that try to pretend they “love him in the Lord” and just want to help him
overcome his sin. Bunch of hypocrites.
The thing
is, Kenny was born a liar. When it comes to telling the truth or telling a lie, Kenny has no more control over his actions than a male dog has around a female dog in heat. He just has to lie. He was created
that way and he is absolutely certain God wouldn’t create someone one way then
tell them to be something else. Being a
liar is who he is and no one has any right at all to change him.
No, the ones
who are even worse than that are the ones who have tried to reach out to him
from a sense of their own brokenness.
That one church, he remembers with a wry chuckle, seemed like everyone
in it was always telling him about the sins they were battling. Lust, idolatry, covetousness, anger, you name
it. And then they’d try to tell Kenny
that they would like to come alongside him in his journey and pray for the Holy
Spirit to help him overcome the sin in his life.
Those people
were the worst, because it was clear
to Kenny that—ever since that day in college when he admitted to himself that
he was a liar—such a peace had come over him that his status as a liar had to not
be a sin, but a gift from God. Why
couldn’t all these Christians see that?
They claimed to want a revelation from God, but here was someone giving
them a clear one and all they were doing was rebelling and clinging to their
old-fashioned notions of Scriptural revelation.
Kenny’s
thinking about heading into the city because he’s heard there’s a church there
made up almost entirely of liars. The
preacher and his wife are self-proclaimed liars and so are all the elders and
deacons. You can walk right in, they
say, and no one will think any the less of you if the way you signed in and the
name you put on your nametag don’t match.
They’ll even applaud you for your boldness.
“That’s the
way churches ought to be,” Kenny thinks to himself as he walks out of one more
failure of a local church. One more
place where the people think they’re sinners in need of grace instead of
realizing that God is nothing but love and doesn’t really care what you do so
long as your heart’s in the right place.
Kenny, who lies to everyone but himself, knows this is true because his
heart tells him so.
[P.S. My apologies to everyone I know named Kenny.]
Saturday, April 19, 2014
Flying Buttresses and Empty Pews
If you haven’t been there yourself,
you’ve probably seen the pictures: enormous, beautiful cathedrals built to hold
hundreds of worshipers that, now, will see maybe twenty people occupy the pews
on a Sunday morning. The great worship
houses of Europe, which once overflowed with people, now sit empty and the
people who live in the surrounding villages (and cities) look disdainfully on
the buildings and have little patience for anyone who calls themselves a
Christian.
“Been there, done that” describes
their attitude pretty well.
Could it happen here?
We have, at most recent count, 47
churches in our little town of Dumas. [Or,
one church for every two Mexican food restaurants.] On any given Sunday morning, an average of
less than 10% of our population attends one of those churches. An interesting topic for discussion could be:
“In one hundred years, what will the church scene of Dumas look like?” Will any of the congregations that now meet
still be here a century hence (should Christ tarry)?
There is, of course, no way of
knowing. We are notoriously bad at
predicting the future. For instance, it
being 2014, we’re supposed to have flying cars and hoverboards and an American
League team in Miami by next year.
On the negative side, it would be easy
to prognosticate that, ten decades from now, the churches of Dumas and America
will be just as empty and ineffectual as the churches of Europe and
England. We have compromised where we
should have stood firm and argued with each other when we should have been
united and preserved what should have been abandoned and set fire to what we
should have kept. We’re seen as
wishy-washy, old-fashioned, and irrelevant.
We’ve been hoping Huey Lewis was a prophet and it would one day be hip
to be square but we just keep getting more square (in the world’s eyes) while
we have a sort of hip dysplasia that keeps us anchored to our pews.
On the other hand, praise God that our
God is greater than we are! When Elijah
sulked in a cave, wishing for death and whining that he was the last faithful
man in Israel, God came to him and said there were still seven thousand people
in Israel who were faithful to the one true God. Not only that, there was still work for
Elijah to do!
Elijah did the work he was called to
do. He established a school of the
prophets and appointed Elisha to take his place.
And you know what happened? Israel continued to decline, the people
continued to abandon God, and eventually the kingdom fell and everyone went
into captivity.
But God used Elijah to sow the seeds
of faithfulness in those who would listen.
Eventually, God sent Jesus, the Messiah he had long promised. Those seeds Gods planted through Elijah
helped to make the soil ready for Christ’s incarnation.
So, I keep asking myself: what about
me? Am I going to keep fighting a
rear-guard action, just waiting for the church to collapse, or am I going to
let God use me like an Elijah: to prepare the people around me for the word of
God?
Speculation about what the church
might look like in a hundred years may have a place, but what is even more
important is this: how will I let God use me today?
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